First, I should explain our approach to trips like this.
We have friends who, when offered such an opportunity, fill all available stretches of time to the brim with activities, so many sights to see, places to visit, miles to drive. We get exhausted just listening to their travel itineraries.
So I wasn’t surprised when I asked a couple of chat bots for suggested itineraries for our visit to Auckland.
For example, ChatGPT suggested how we might spend today:
Morning: Auckland Art Gallery
Afternoon: Wynyard Quarter: wander, tram, dine
Evening: Catch a show at ASB Theatre
The problem is that any one of those activities would pretty much fill our day!
We do enjoy the Auckland Art Gallery, the city’s main art museum. We have visited it at least once on every one of our trips to Auckland over the years, and have always come away enriched.
But racing through the art in order to get to another shopping/sightseeing errand after lunch is not our style.
We’re here on vacation. We want to get a flavor of the place, but feel no compulsion to knock ourselves out in the process. We want to finish our trip feeling relaxed and rested, not exhausted by the effort to see and do as much as possible during the time allotted.
Enough on that.
We spent Thursday, our fourth day since arriving, and third full day in Auckland, visiting with a “cousin” and his wife.
Brad Heald and I were introduced via Ancestry.com, where we showed up as DNA matches on my Lind-family line, my dad’s family. Brad reached out seeking information about his great-great grandfather, John Lind, b. 1880 in Scotland, who eventually made his way to Hawaii, where he died in 1962. That John Lind’s family is now a significant part of the community in Hana, Maui.
He was a cousin of my grandfather, William Grace Lind, whose son (yet another John Lind) moved to Hawaii from California in 1939. That John was my dad.
I eventually figured out that Brad and I are third cousins, twice removed, as genealogists would count it.
His grandmother is my third cousin, and Brad and I are separated by two generations, hence the “twice removed.”
Our most recent common ancestor was a John Lind, born August 1800 in West Calder, Midlothian, Scotland. He married Isabella Shields in 1832.
My dad’s family descended from a son, John Lind, born 1840.
Brad and his family are descended from another of the couple’s sons, James Lind, born 1845.
This all makes my head spin, with so many generations of naming children John, William, James, and Thomas.
In any case, we met Brad and his wife, Sapi, last year when we were in Auckland.
Yesterday we took a 30-minute Uber ride and met them at The Landing restaurant in Riverhead, West Auckland, not far from their current home in Kumeu, which turns out to be the home of several vineyards.
The restaurant brags that it is has been around for more than 160 years, and holds New Zealand’s second-oldest liquor license.
From the history of Riverhead:
Nestled on the shores of the upper Waitemata, The Riverhead is steeped in local history and played a part in the development of early New Zealand, with thousands using the wharf and hotel as the gateway to lands in the north prior to the completion of roads and railway.
After lunch, Sapi guided us to several nearby “Op Shops,” what we would call thrift stores, where we prowled around for a while and even found a few small treasures, like this nice little box that I spotted and Meda approved. Meda also found a couple of bits of jewelry, which I’ll post photos of some other time.

We then adjourned to their house for tea and conversation, where we received an excited welcome from Watson, shown here with Brad.
There’s more to report, but it will have to wait until later.