Another stressful day

Thursday ended on what we thought was a high note. Two plumbers, one from Redwood City’s sewer department, or whatever it is called here, had declared any toilet issues resolved and said we could resume using this essential infrastructure.

The toilet adjoining the master bedroom flushed properly through the night, giving us confidence it had truly been fixed. It was a huge relief after a day of an

Then it was back to high anxiety!

Early Friday morning, BAM! The toilet suddenly overflowed again, again spreading an inch of water across most of the bathroom.

This was obviously a huge bummer!

We now realized that if the toilets couldn’t be used, we would have to move elsewhere until there was a successful plumbing fix, or until our medical sojourn in California is over.

But moving to a hotel would make it challenging, at best, to find ways to sustain the puree diet that I’m sentenced to at least until early next week.

While we were trying to figure out how we could maneuver my diet if we moved to a hotel, Meda’s sister was trying to track down another plumber able to respond on short notice on Friday before the holiday weekend. When she found a company able to show up within an hour or so, hope returned, only to be dashed later when the plumber had to defer most of the work until a bigger crew could appear on Saturday to dig up a section of the drain line.

By about 4:30, we were checked into a Residece Inn a few miles away in Menlo Park. We’re booked initially for just 2 nights.

It’s nice room, with full size refrigerator, a 2-burner cooktop, separate bedroom, and the biggest bathroom I’ve ever seen in a hotel.

If Sunday dawns and the plumbing situation is still “iffy,” we’ll hunker down here for another week or so. By then I should have a better idea of when we’ll be ready to fly home.

So there’s still a lot of uncertainty. But the toilets at the Residence Inn work as designed. And with so many things to worry about over the past two days, any anxieties about upcoming cancer treatments have been pushed from my mind.

Feline Friday: Looking back a decade

It’s taken me most of the day to repost this Feline Friday from about the same time of year back in 2016.

It was a whole different cast of characters, all elderly and in questionable health.

But I think you’ll enjoy this step back in time.

Feline Friday 4-29-2016

I missed her birthday

I was still in the hospital at UCSF on May 15, reveling in the transition from a liquid diet to a pureed food diet and depressed by the realization that my departure from hospital custody had been delayed at least another day.

With all the other things going on, I missed the day. May 15. My mother’s birthday. And this year I blew it.

I’m reposting something I wrote several years ago. It seems appropriate for the occasion.

My mother, Helen Yonge Lind, was born in Honolulu in 1914. She died early this year, just months short of her 99th birthday.

This is one of a series of short vignettes of life during her early years, transcribed from her original typed and handwritten notes.

Today’s contribution: Waipahu.

Most of my childhood memories are of Waipahu and the Oahu Railroad, as my father worked for the railroad as a station agent, first at Puuloa and later at Waipahu.

I have only faint memories of the Puuloa Station, which was located near today’s entrance to Hickam Field. It was a smallish structure located in the middle of cane fields on the makai side of the train tracks. On the mauka side of the tracks was a cottage where a Hawaiian couple lived and may have operated a small store. Alongside the station, a road running in the Ewa direction led to Pearl Harbor and another disappeared through the cane fields to Watertown and Fort Kamehameha.

We visited friends in Watertown where homes were built on the edge of a rocky shoreline, each with a pier extending out over the water. In the clear shallow water, you could see slithering sea creatures that we called “snakes.”

My father was transferred about 1917 to the Waipahu station, which was closer to civilization. It served a larger population and was surrounded by a number of stores and a rice mill. Not too far up Depot Road was the Waipahu plantation town. The road separated the station from the river which in the rainy season filled to overflowing and caused great flooding.

Helen Yonge Lind The station had a second story which served as the living quarters for the family. Behind the building was a small lawn area bordered by a hibiscus hedge, and beyond that was a large warehouse for goods being shipped in and out. Across the tracks from the warehouse was a large wooden water tank that serviced the train engines. In a portion of the surrounding area that was covered with bushes and weeds, my father cleared and fenced a space where he raised chickens and vegetables. By the warehouse, he raised red pidgins which provided us with the most delicious squabs.

Across the track and beyond the water tank was the entrance to a rice plantation where my sister and I spent a great deal of our time under the watchful eyes of the two oldest daughters of the Chinese family. I remember the names Ah Ting and Ah Moy. Their young brother, Ah Look, was our playmate.

We ran down the raised pathways through the rice paddies chasing flocks of rice birds and playing with the ducks. We caught frogs and small fish, and when the workers came in from the fields for lunch, we joined them in the rustic dining area sitting on stools around a quite large round table. The floor was hard-packed dirt with chickens flitting around chasing bones and bits of food from the diners. Hanging from the ceiling over the table was a large pot of rice from which we helped ourselves. The food was simple and savory and has left a lasting influence onmylife-long preference for what some call Chinese “peasant food”: salt fish, salt duck egg, fatty steamed pork (kau yuk), and green vegetables with pungent hum har sauce.

Since my father supervised the loading and shipping of the rice harvested by various rice growers in the area, our family was often invited to elaborate harvest banquets. The feasts were a sumptuous spread of many dishes elaborately prepared and delicious beyond description.

Related:

Memoirs of Haleiwa

A 1949 family luau in Waipahu

A pre-WWII picnic

More glimpses of my mother’s Hawaii in the 1920s

If it’s not one thing….

Thursday, May 21, sometime after 3:30 p.m. We were coasting into the Memorial Day weekend, and my biggest gripe was being stuck on a diet of pureed foods.

I decided to take advantage of the afternoon heat to take a shower. I skipped this ritual yesterday because it is more complicated the it would normally be. I still have a plastic tube in my gut draining small amounts of fluid from the site of my surgery, now 10 days in the past. This complicates things, as I have to be careful not to put pressure on the drain. I managed it so far by wearing a pair of underwear into the shower and clipping the plastic collection bag to it, leaving my hands mostly free.

I quickly realized things were different. Water in the shower/tub was slowly backing up. I tried moving the drain lever to the opposite position. No effect, as far as I could tell. I flipped that switch several times, hoping to hear the sounds of water draining. Nada. So I figured, okay, don’t worry about the backup. We don’t have to take showers tomorrow.

I was just starting a final rinse when the hot water expired. Yikes! If it’s not one thing, it’s another, as Gilda would say. Kids, you’ll just have to look up that reference, I guess.

So my rinse was truncated, and I stepped out. Quickly dried off, then reached down for the pair of shorts I had ready for the occasion. And that’s when I discovered the toilet had overflowed, covering more than half the bathroom floor.

A plumber had apparenty blessed the bathrooms after a recent checkup prior to our arrival. So much for advance preparations.

So there we were, an hour ago. Cursory efforts to mop up the water using bath towels grandly inadequate but the house had been empty for a while and the typical collection of household rags, as well as mops, were no longer available. Meanwhile, Meda was wiping her hands with alcohol wipes and helping replace the bandage at the site of the surgical drain.

A three ring circus.

I thought about just moving to a hotel, but realized that a have delivery of commercial pureed meals arriving tomorrow, exact timing unknown. So we’re kind of stuck.

This one hit us out of left field.

We’re waiting for the plumber to arrive. It’s 82° outside, not quite that in the house. We have two fans that we move around the different rooms as the sun changes position.

And I thought being stuck with pureed food was the biggest problem we faced.